Yes, domestic violence is real. When it happens, I’m sure it’s frightening and painful. However, as a lawyer, I see far too many instances of spouses using the system to gain an advantage in a divorce or to get an obnoxious partner out of the house for a few days. Then, they’re surprised to learn that prosecutors won’t listen when they want to withdraw the charges. A case is issued, a no contact order goes into effect and now the woman wants to know how she’s supposed to pay the bills or take care of the kids without help from their partner.
The defendant now needs to hire a lawyer for thousands of dollars that the family can’t afford. But, a conviction for a DV related offense that was really just an argument has even higher long term costs. There frequently are some strategies to get a family out of this mess but the real solution is to not cry wolf in the first place. But, if it’s too late for that call us. We’re at www.reddinandsinger.com




